Dating someone in a different culture
Dating someone of another heritage is one thing, but how about when you are seeing someone who is from a completely different country than you, with opposite cultural views, meanings and traditions? We didn’t start dating until nine months after we knew each other, so the only interactions that we had were “Hi”, and “Bye” and “You look good”.
While dating someone of the same culture may feel like the safer option due to common ground and many shared interests, there are all kinds of advantages to meeting and dating people from a different culture.
And just because you’re from different backgrounds doesn’t mean you’re not compatible.
Do you have similar values, such as a strong sense of family and tradition, for example?
When I've dated white men, the obstacle was that I can't always tell which ones are using me as some sort of experience, and I'm like constantly worried their parents are racists.
If their parents know I exist I'm like "ok, but do they know I'm black?
And that’s where first world/third world problems seep in. While it can be work, dating someone from a different country and culture really is a beautiful thing; it opens your eyes to new ways of life and gives you a respect for other people’s cultures, religions, customs and languages.