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That he was willing to see a counselor and work on sex were also good signs.If I had a partner who was unwilling to talk about sex or try to fix it, I'd kick his ass to the curb without blinking.I won't say it's been fairy-tale perfect—the kind of perfect that makes you barf and roll your eyes—but it's been pretty damn close.
Now we have two kids, and we have sex almost weekly. ) I doubt it's the norm, Dan, but that's what happened with me.It sounds cheesy, but marriage counseling really helped.It helped my husband understand himself and his reactions better, and it helped cement the idea of "ours" instead of "yours" as it related to the problems I was dealing with at the time.So with the help of counseling, I got him on board with dirty talk during sex (because it's important for me) and I worked (and still work) on telling him what to do when we bone.He can't read my body language, so a lot of the improvement came down to me being more comfortable with giving him instructions.
I was a virgin, my wife was not, together we hadn't gotten much past second base, and neither of us had laid our kink cards on the table.